Divorce is considered messy, lengthy and expensive. But it does not have to be that way for you. For many couples in New Jersey, mediation provides a faster and less stressful way to reach a divorce agreement. Here are some advantages of mediation that you might find beneficial.
Mediation is a private and cooperative process
Mediation is a private process involving you, your spouse and a mediator. During the process, you will negotiate the terms, including child custody, property division, support arrangements and other aspects of the divorce. Unlike legal battles in the courtroom, mediation encourages you and your spouse to cooperate and communicate openly.
Mediation can speed up the divorce process
If a divorce goes to court, it can take months or even years because of all the legal procedures, such as court schedules and motions from both sides. Mediation, on the other hand, allows you to settle at your own pace. Many couples also reach an agreement during mediation after just a few sessions. The quick resolution lessens the emotional strain between both parties.
Mediation usually costs less than litigation
Litigated divorce is expensive. You must pay the filing fees, attorney appearances, expert witnesses and more. Conversely, mediation reduces the cost because it has lower court involvement and fewer billable hours, which can help you save thousands of dollars.
Mediation gives you and your spouse control
The judge has the final say over what happens between you and your spouse, as well as your assets in a court process. In mediation, you and your spouse have a say on the decisions involving child custody, property and finances, leading to a more favorable outcome for both of you.
Mediation needs cooperation
Mediation works best if you and your spouse are willing to talk openly and compromise. However, it might not be the proper avenue for cases involving abuse or when the communication gap is already irreparable. Still, a skilled mediator can help high-conflict couples get their desired settlement.
Legal guidance strengthens the mediation process
Working with a mediator and a family law attorney results in a more secure and lasting outcome. While the mediator is neutral and guides the conversation, a family law attorney looks out for your best interests throughout the process. They can help review the agreement and ensure that everything is legally valid.